Tell someone a good business success story and something interesting happens –> They start questioning their job?
- A founder left a comfortable career, started with almost nothing and built a ₹100 crore company.
- Someone else quit at 35, started a business from their apartment and now travels the world.
- Another person turned a small idea into a business doing more revenue than they ever imagined earning as an employee.
You read enough of these stories and your job can suddenly start looking very different.
- The salary that seemed good last week starts feeling limiting.
- The boss who seemed reasonable starts feeling unbearable.
- The eight-hour workday starts looking like a cage.
You begin wondering whether you are wasting your life working for somebody else. Then you read a story about someone whose business failed.
- They spent their savings.
- The first year didn’t work.
- The second year required more money.
- The big customer never came.
- The co-founder left.
- They eventually shut the business down and went back to a job.
And suddenly, that same job feels pretty good.
- The salary feels comforting.
- The fixed date on which money arrives in your bank account feels like a luxury.
- The leave policy starts looking surprisingly generous.
It is strange how quickly our perception changes depending on which business story we happen to read.
Maybe that is why we need to hear more of the stories that don’t end with a celebration.
We hear the winners
Most business stories have a natural selection problem.
–> The people who succeed have a reason to tell their stories.
–> The people who fail often don’t.
A successful founder has a company, a valuation, a team, a milestone, a photograph and eventually a podcast invitation.
Someone who spent three years building a business that didn’t work usually has none of those things.
So we end up consuming a very unusual sample of entrepreneurship.
–> We see the survivors.
Then we use their stories to imagine our own future –> That isn’t necessarily wrong –> Success stories are useful –> They show what is possible.
But there is a subtle difference between saying –> “Someone did this“and believing –> “Therefore, I should be able to do this.“
Those are two very different conclusions.
Then there is the salary problem
This is where I think people considering entrepreneurship sometimes make a particularly strange calculation.
Suppose you earn ₹25 lakh a year today.
You decide you want to start a business.
Somewhere in your head, there is often an unstated assumption –> “If I can make ₹25 lakh working for somebody else, surely I can eventually make ₹25 lakh working for myself.”
Maybe.
But notice what just happened.
You quietly converted an existing income into an expected income.
Your ₹25 lakh salary is real <–> Someone is already paying you that money
Your business income is an idea.
- It might become ₹25 lakh.
- It might become ₹50 lakh.
- It might become ₹5 lakh.
- It might become nothing for a while.
- It might even lose money.
The number isn’t really the point. You could be earning ₹5 lakh, ₹15 lakh or ₹50 lakh.
The important distinction is this –> Your salary is an established economic outcome. Your business income is a possibility.
When you leave a job, you aren’t exchanging one ₹25 lakh income for another ₹25 lakh income. You are exchanging a relatively predictable income for an uncertain outcome.
And there is another little trap here –> People sometimes compare their salary with business revenue.
“I only need to build a business doing ₹25 lakh.”
But ₹25 lakh of business revenue is not ₹25 lakh in your pocket.
- There are employees.
- Rent.
- Technology.
- Marketing.
- Taxes.
- Working capital.
- Inventory.
- Bad debts.
- Professional fees.
Reinvestment. And a hundred small expenses that don’t appear in the glamorous version of entrepreneurship.
So the real question isn’t –> Can my business make what I currently earn?
It is –> Can the business sustainably put what I currently earn into my hands, after everything the business itself needs?
–> Much less exciting question but a much more useful one.
We also underestimate what a salary buys us
A salary doesn’t just buy things. It buys a certain amount of predictability.
- You know roughly when the money will arrive.
- You know what your monthly obligations are.
- You can plan a holiday.
- You can take a loan.
- You can decide to buy something six months from now.
- You can make plans without first asking whether next month’s customers will pay on time.
When you move into business, the uncertainty doesn’t necessarily stay inside the business.
It follows you home.…
- A difficult month isn’t just a difficult month on a spreadsheet.
- It can change what you spend –> What you postpone –> What you plan.
- How comfortable you feel making a large commitment.
- Sometimes even how you think about next month.
I say this with some personal bias because I have experienced both sides. I know what it feels like to have a relatively comfortable job, a predictable salary and the quiet confidence that next month will probably look a lot like this month.
I also know what happens when that certainty disappears. It changes the way you think about money.
More importantly, it changes the way you think about risk.
–> You begin to realise that entrepreneurship isn’t simply about exchanging a boss for freedom.
–> You are exchanging one kind of problem for a different set of problems.
And sometimes you are exchanging certainty for possibility.
Social media makes this harder
We have become very good at packaging the upside of entrepreneurship.
- The photographs are beautiful.
- The office is beautiful.
- The founder story is beautiful.
- The revenue number is beautiful.
- The announcement that someone has quit their job to “build something of their own” is beautiful.
What we don’t see as often is the Tuesday afternoon when there isn’t enough cash to comfortably pay everyone.
- Or the customer who says payment will come next week.
- Or the product that took six months to build and nobody wants.
- Or the founder who hasn’t taken a proper holiday because the business still depends on them.
Those things don’t make particularly good Instagram posts. But they are part of the business too.
–> The danger isn’t that social media lies.
–> The danger is that it shows us a highly edited part of the truth.
This isn’t an argument against entrepreneurship
I don’t think the answer is to stay in a job because businesses can fail. That would be just as simplistic.
- Businesses can also create extraordinary wealth.
- They can create freedom.
- They can give you the satisfaction of building something that didn’t exist before.
- They can change the trajectory of your life.
And sometimes leaving a job is exactly the right decision. But the decision becomes very different when you stop assuming that the outcome is guaranteed.
If you are earning well today, perhaps the most important question isn’t –> How much could I make if this works?
It is –> How much am I genuinely willing to earn if it takes longer than I expect?
And –>How long can I live with that uncertainty?
Those are not pessimistic questions. They are preparation.
This is why failure stories matter
A good failure story doesn’t tell you not to start.
- It tells you what the founder didn’t see coming.
- It makes you think about cash flow before revenue.
- About customers before enthusiasm.
- About margins before scale.
- About working capital before growth.
- About whether the business works without the founder doing everything.
And perhaps most importantly, it makes you think about the life around the business.
Because a business doesn’t exist in isolation.
- There is a person behind it.
- There may be a family behind that person.
- There are commitments, expectations, loans, plans and responsibilities.
- That is the part we often leave out when we talk about entrepreneurship.
We talk about the business decision as if only the business is at risk. It isn’t.
Maybe we need a different way to tell these stories
We don’t need fewer success stories –> We need more complete ones.
Tell me how the business became successful –> But also tell me what almost killed it.
Tell me the revenue –> But tell me the margins.
Tell me about the funding –> But tell me what the founder had to sacrifice.
Tell me when they quit their job –> But tell me what happened to their income in the first two years.
Tell me about the freedom –> But tell me when they last had a completely disconnected weekend.
Tell me how much the business is worth –> But tell me how much money the founder can actually take home.
These details don’t make entrepreneurship less exciting.
–> They make the story more useful.
Because if you are sitting in a job wondering whether you should leave it, you don’t need another person telling you that anything is possible.
- You need enough information to decide what you are actually signing up for.
- A success story can give you the courage to jump.
- A failure story can help you understand the depth of the water.
–> Maybe we need both before we decide to jump. The point isn’t to tell you whether to jump. It is to make sure you know what you’re jumping into.
And this isn’t about hating business
None of this is an argument against business.
In fact, I think the opposite is true.
There is something deeply satisfying about building something of your own. About taking an idea that exists only in your head and slowly turning it into something real. About figuring things out when there is no playbook, solving problems you didn’t know existed and somehow finding a way through months that didn’t go according to plan.
The uncertainty can be exhausting. But it can also be exciting.
The difficult customers, the bad months, the unexpected problems, the small wins that nobody else notices, the feeling of finally getting something right after getting it wrong several times… perhaps that is part of the journey too.
I don’t think entrepreneurship should be romanticised. But I don’t think it should be feared either. Maybe we simply need to see it more honestly. Because when you understand the uncertainty and still want to build, the decision becomes much more meaningful.
You aren’t leaving your job because someone on social media made entrepreneurship look glamorous.
You aren’t starting because you believe success is waiting for you.
You are starting because you understand that the journey will be difficult, uncertain and sometimes uncomfortable…
and you still want to take it.
Maybe that is a better reason to build something of your own.
